Expert tells parents to ask baby’s consent when changing diapers

Debate Erupts Over Suggestion to Ask Babies for “Consent” During Diaper Changes

An Australian sexuality educator has sparked online debate after suggesting that parents should begin teaching the idea of consent from birth—even during routine activities like changing a baby’s diaper.

Deanne Carson says the concept isn’t about expecting a baby to give a verbal response. Instead, she believes parents can introduce respectful communication by speaking to the child and explaining what they are doing.

Her comments quickly spread online, with some people supporting the idea as a way to model respect and boundaries early in life. Others questioned the practicality of asking infants for consent, noting that babies are too young to understand or respond.

The discussion reflects a broader conversation about how modern parenting approaches are evolving, especially when it comes to teaching children about personal boundaries and communication.